So I'm dating this guy and it's been about three months and I really like him, the problem is he kinda has a flirting problem, what should I do? He doesn't mean to but it's "in his nature".
well depends on the degree of flirting. if it’s something really small, i wouldn’t worry too much about it. but if it REALLY bothers you i would talk to him about it and tell him what you think. don’t say stuff like “i feel like….” because that’ll just make him feel like he’s being accused/attacked. say your thoughts like, “i think ….. ” because that’ll show you’re willing to talk about it and compromise! i know that sounds super weird but that’s something i learned from my english professor this summer and it honestly really does help when you tell people your thoughts in an “i think…” format instead of an “i feel…” format and it results in a much more productive solution.
probably not the answer you were looking for but i just think talking about stuff to people is always more productive than automatically assuming. sure it might be scary and hard to take the initiative but it’s so much easier than assuming how somebody feels trust me!
I feel like a slut because I'm 14 and I've dated 6 guys already
well don’t let anyone determine if you’re a slut or not. you know yourself better than anyone and you know who you are. you’ve dated 6 guys and you’re 14; that’s great if that what makes you happy then so be it! me and nobody else is in authority to judge if you’re a slut or not! do whatever makes you happy and fuck what other people think. if you want to date guys then do what you want just set your own limits and know your limits and don’t let anybody force you into doing anything you don’t want to do. if you don’t want to date anymore guys then don’t anymore guys! i can’t tell you what to do i have to let you decide what YOU feel is right. :)